Friday, August 24, 2007

Uncertainty.....

Recently made a very "not like me" decision.Told Kath that i may resigned soon.Ask her to get ready.I just feel bad that i have troubled her a lot because for a new person to take over my current place will take about one month,just like previously i need one month to take over my predecessor's place...

One month to take exam,get access to the system and get familiar with all the task.I like Maersk, its friendly and warm colleagues and super nice superior.Really treat me like a little sis and taking good care of me...

But,i understand that i can't waste time anymore.I know what i want,i'm very sure whether what kind of job i like and i dun't like.Sent resume to Marcus Evans,get call from them.Will fight for an interview chances and must get ready to do the best.I really loves doing event management things,at least it is not as bored as my current office life.Perhaps my new job will make me sacrifies a lot,long working hours,less benefits and maybe not as good pay as in Maersk.

Previously,i will grab jobs that offer better salary and benefits,short working hours...But now, i understand what i need in life..I need to meet more people,see more things,join more activities and search larger network..I want a more interesting life..

But, my current life is definitely not what i have wanted.I can't stand the routine anymore.Meeting the same people everyday.Having lunch and dinner with the same people.And having too much free time during the weekends, wondering how to finish up my weekends.Perhaps,if now i have a boyfriend by my side, i wouldn't feel like that.But, to depends on that,maybe is better for me to depends on myself to settle my own depression.

A new job,new environment,new challenge....

Wish me goodluck :0)

Monday, August 13, 2007

Coffee or Cup??!!...

Hmm..pondering pondering.....quite true in a way

" The happiest people in the world are not those who have no problems,but those who learn to live with things that are less than perfect."

* A group of graduates, highly established in their careers, got together to visit their old university professor.

* Conversation soon turned into complaints about stress in work and life.

* Offering his guests coffee, the professor went to the kitchen and returned with a large pot of coffee and an assortment of cups -porcelain, plastic, glass, crystal, some plain looking, some expensive,some exquisite- telling them to help themselves to the coffee.

* When all the students had a cup of coffee, the professor said: "If you noticed, all the nice looking expensive cups were taken up, leaving behind the simple and cheap ones.

* While it is normal for you to want only the best for yourselves, that is the source of your problems and stress.

* Be assured that the cup itself adds no quality to the coffee.

* In most cases, it is just more expensive and in some cases even hides what we drink.

* What all of you really wanted was coffee, not the cup, but you consciously went for the best cups... Then you began eyeing each other's cups.

* Now consider this:
- Life is the coffee; the jobs, money and position in society are the cups.
- They are just tools to hold and contain Life, and the type of cup we have does not define, nor change the quality of Life we live.
- Sometimes, by concentrating on the cup, we fail to enjoy the coffee God has provided us.
Enjoy your coffee!."

* The happiest people don't have the best of everything.

* They just make the best of everything."
1. Live simply.
2. Love generously.
3. Care deeply.
4. Speak kindly.
5. Leave the rest to God.

You are the miracle, my friend;
Your life either shines a light OR casts a shadow!
Shine a light & Enjoy the Coffee!!!

Sunday, August 5, 2007

What is LOVE all about...

***To My Friends Who Are ***
SINGLE
Love is like a butterfly .
The more you chase it , the more it eludes you.
But if you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it.
Love can make you happy but often it hurts ,but love's only special when you give it to someone who is really worth it.
So take your time and choose the best.

*** To My Friends Who Are ***
NOT SO SINGLE
Love isn't about becoming somebody else's "perfect person."
It's about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.

*** To My Friends Who Are ***
PLAYBOY/GIRL TYPE

Never say "I love you" if you don't care.
Never talk about feelings if they aren't there.
Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart .
Never look in the eye when all you do is lie.
The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl is to let her fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch her fall and it works both ways...

*** To My Friends Who Are ***
MARRIED

Love is not about "it's your fault",but "I'm sorry" .
Not "where are you", but "I'm right here."
Not "how could you", but "I understand."
Not "I wish you were", but "I'm thankful you are."

*** To My Friends Who Are ***
ENGAGED

The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together but how good you are for each other.

*** To My Friends Who Are ***
HEARTBROKEN

Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to go.
The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them .

*** To My Friends Who Are ***
NAIVE

How to be in love: Fall but don't stumble, be consistent but not too persistent, share and never be unfair,understand and try not to demand, and get hurt but never keep the pain.

*** To My Friends Who Are ***
POSSESSIVE

It breaks your heart to see the one you love is happy with someone else but it's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.

*** To My Friends Who Are ***
AFRAID TO CONFESS

Love hurts when you break up with someone.
It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you.
But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea how you feel.

*** To My Friends Who Are ***
STILL HOLDING ON

A sad thing about life is when you meet someone and fall in love,only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and that you have wasted years on someone who wasn't worth it.
If he isn't worth it now he's not going to be worth it a year or 10years from now.
Let go.....